Is there any age limit for love?. Theoretically no, but an affair
will not be accepted if you are that young. So what is the
perfect age to love? In foreign countries, if their children
have no boyfriend or girlfriend at the age of 15 then the
parents will approach a psychiatrist.
But the scenario is little different here. Love marriage is not
that accepted in India since the parents are afraid of
whether their kids are taking the right decision or parents do
believe that their children are not enough matured to take life
decisions alone since the children are misanthropes till an
average age of 13 or 15.
Unlike other countries, children are dealing with society after
an age of 15 or 16. And this makes them too confused with
decisions that they deal with. However, the situations that an
Indian student or an uneducated child has to face
is enormous. And these situations are changing in
generations and actually, their parents have no idea about
it.
Even in education, students are not matured enough to
select their graduation course. They are selecting a
professional course or some degrees and during all these
ages they have no idea about what they are going to study
or what will be the outcome of the course or even what will
be the future scope.
Almost 60% of students are unaware of their course's
syllabus and future, even after completing their 3rd or 4th
semesters and this is the time when they get an idea about
what they got and what they want to do. But in India, the
cost of education is not negligibly small and the students
can't easily shift between the courses.
So they are dealing with some serious problems that their
parents cannot understand. If they survive all these critical
situation such that completing a degree which they have no
idea about, getting into job in 26 which is impossible in past
generation (most of the parents started to get a decent
income from late 30 s), they are mature enough to select
their life partner given they have a promising job.
If love is one of the inspiration for completing a degree and
getting into a job then their love is even more mature than
the incorrigible nature of society. And dear parents instead
of listening to the society please listen to your sons and
daughters.
Because they are way more mature than any old bag that
gives advice on the future of your children who have no
regard for the future of your children.
Men and women should be matured to get married but
age cannot be taken as a measuring entity. Everyone has
their on point of view about their and others life but don't
believe that your sole point of view is true. There will always
be thousands of point of views and only one will be true
among them-keep considering the point of at least one
whose life you are going to play with.





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